Shifting your concern from your own well-being to include a genuine concern for the other person can transform your relationships, and it can also transform you as a person. You can become a person who provides well-being to others, and who shoulders the burden for others, too. This is a very uncomplicated shift in outlook that can completely reorient your relationships. I think this outlook might yield the healthiest relationships of all.
―Karmapa Urgyen Trinley Dorje
Great Middle Way 
This is so true. The story we tell ourselves about the “other” person will fill our lives with the characters we believe are there.
Thank you. PKL
Great Middle Way 於 2015年03月31日 (週二) 2:42 AM 寫道﹕
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